If there is one thing that this global crisis has taught me, it’s not to take things for granted. Simple things such as toilet roll in the shops. Pasta on the shelves. Fresh produce in the fridge. The opportunity to travel. The freedom to literally step outside of my own apartment.
These are all things that I feel are basic to living in the modern world (without sounding too privileged as I know that these are not basic things in many people’s lives, I am simply talking about my own experience) and yet, these are things that we are now finding to be restricted.
It has baffled me the way that media and society have responded to this crisis. We all knew how much the media sensationalizes stories, but honestly, I have come to the point of deleting my news apps and only reading government advice or publications on the current situation.
The travel point for me is something I definitely feel that I take for granted. Living in Dubai we live in the perfect travel hub, we can be in Europe, Asia, Africa, all within just a few hours. But with countries closing their borders and flights being cancelled, it has really put things into perspective for me.
We have a difficult decision to make with regards to our honeymoon. The months of planning that goes into it and then suddenly we may not be able to go. A few of the events we had pre-booked have been cancelled and daily we are reserving emails cancelling reservations we have made in certain restaurants. Even if the borders are open and we are physically able to travel there, is it the right thing to do? We face the risk of landing in LAX and not being allowed through. We run the risk of being allowed through but three days later when we want to travel on to the French Polynesia that policies have changed again. Most importantly, we run the risk of catching the virus. I am not concerned about myself (although obviously my health is important to me) but I am concerned about being a carrier and I am very concerned about passing it on to someone who may not be able to fight it off.
We need to be pragmatic about the situation, but also socially responsible. The UK has also advised all Briton’s against non-essential travel for at least thirty days. We are going to continue to monitor the situation, however, my gut feeling is that it is in our best interest financially (although we are going to have to take a hit on some of the costs to reschedule hotels and flights) and morally to postpone the honeymoon to a date later in the year.
This makes me sad, but if this is my biggest issue I face in this pandemic then I can pick my chin up and deal with it.
Stay safe everyone.