Coping in Quarantine

It’s such a strange time to be alive. I’ve been sitting out on the balcony looking outside at the marina promenade and seeing people outside running, walking, out on bikes, pushing prams and I feel like I’m in prison! Looking down on the outside world where I want to be, but can’t be there. When actually, they shouldn’t be there either!

I don’t understand why people risk it. I get that it’s not ideal having to spend all of this time at home but we are in a state of lockdown, it’s just not worth the risk. Here in the UAE we are allowed outside for essentials such as groceries and medicine but that’s it. They have also imposed a strict lockdown from the hours of 8pm-6am to allow for disinfecting of the streets to help prevent the spread of the virus. People just need or abide by the rules until this is all over.

I keep coming over in waves of sadness and then positivity so I’m trying to channel the positivity to overcome this time. The sadness I feel is due to us having to cancel our honeymoon, which we were supposed to be going on in less than a week. I’ve unfollowed the hotels we had booked up and a few travel pages on Instagram, just until this blows over, so I don’t have to see too many pictures! I love researching and booking holidays though, so I am excited to be able to find the best prices and get everything booked back up for, hopefully, later in the year.

It’s not easy spending so much time inside, especially when we have such gorgeous weather in Dubai at the moment. So, to try and make the most of my time I’ve got myself into a bit of a routine before starting my day. As Dusty (our recent rescue kitten) has found his vocal cords, he’s waking us up at around 6.30 every morning, so that gives me two hours before I need to log on for work. I get myself ready, almost as if I was going to work (without the makeup and in comfier clothes) and then have a little tidy up and Hoover of the apartment, feed the boys, change their litter and then do some exercise. I find it really hard to be motivated when I’m training on my own so I’ve been trying some new classes online. I’m really enjoying yoga and a few studios in Dubai have been putting up live sessions to follow on Instagram which has been great.

I’ve also written myself a Quarantine To Do List of all the things I want to achieve with all this time we have to spend at home. For example, I finally got around to organising our professional wedding photos – it has only taken me 7 months! I’ve also created photo books on Snapfish for our grandparents which contains some of our lovely photos in the order of the wedding day. I’ve ordered a scrapbook so that I can arrange our wedding cards and store them nicely – as I have to admit, we still have them hanging up on the wall! We should have taken them down by now but we are pretty limited for space; plus they always make me happy looking up and seeing them.

As we are hoping to move out of our apartment and into a villa by June, I’m also going to take this opportunity to have a huge clear out of my clothes (yes Ryan, I really did say that)! Once life returns to a normality I will head down to the Ripe Market in Dubai and set up a stall to hopefully sell a few bits!

I have also decided to use my time more wisely and rather than spending hours on end scrolling through social media, I’ve decided to learn Spanish! I’ve started with a free app for now called Duolingo and so far I’m on day three and I’m really enjoying it. I’ve told myself that if I keep this up for two weeks with a little bit of learning each day that I’m going to pay for a course to keep it going long term, and once isolating is over, see about getting myself a tutor! I’ve always been envious of people who speak at least one language. It’s something that I enjoyed at school but never stuck with, and looking back, I really regret that.

So, those are just a few things that I’m doing to try and help the days pass. I don’t want to just wake up and try and get through each day, I want to really try and enjoy this time at home and focus on a few things for myself and also things I should have for round to doing myself in the last six months! I hope that everyone is staying safe, have you got any tips / things that are keeping you busy right now?

Travelling in the face of a Pandemic

If there is one thing that this global crisis has taught me, it’s not to take things for granted. Simple things such as toilet roll in the shops. Pasta on the shelves. Fresh produce in the fridge. The opportunity to travel. The freedom to literally step outside of my own apartment.

These are all things that I feel are basic to living in the modern world (without sounding too privileged as I know that these are not basic things in many people’s lives, I am simply talking about my own experience) and yet, these are things that we are now finding to be restricted.

It has baffled me the way that media and society have responded to this crisis. We all knew how much the media sensationalizes stories, but honestly, I have come to the point of deleting my news apps and only reading government advice or publications on the current situation.

The travel point for me is something I definitely feel that I take for granted. Living in Dubai we live in the perfect travel hub, we can be in Europe, Asia, Africa, all within just a few hours. But with countries closing their borders and flights being cancelled, it has really put things into perspective for me.

We have a difficult decision to make with regards to our honeymoon. The months of planning that goes into it and then suddenly we may not be able to go. A few of the events we had pre-booked have been cancelled and daily we are reserving emails cancelling reservations we have made in certain restaurants. Even if the borders are open and we are physically able to travel there, is it the right thing to do? We face the risk of landing in LAX and not being allowed through. We run the risk of being allowed through but three days later when we want to travel on to the French Polynesia that policies have changed again. Most importantly, we run the risk of catching the virus. I am not concerned about myself (although obviously my health is important to me) but I am concerned about being a carrier and I am very concerned about passing it on to someone who may not be able to fight it off.

We need to be pragmatic about the situation, but also socially responsible. The UK has also advised all Briton’s against non-essential travel for at least thirty days. We are going to continue to monitor the situation, however, my gut feeling is that it is in our best interest financially (although we are going to have to take a hit on some of the costs to reschedule hotels and flights) and morally to postpone the honeymoon to a date later in the year.

This makes me sad, but if this is my biggest issue I face in this pandemic then I can pick my chin up and deal with it.

Stay safe everyone.

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